Differing from traditional couples counseling, our approach begins with establishing prerequisite skills prior to deeper work into the content of conflilcts between partners. Couples often have one or two of these skills in place even before seeking help. Those skills are strenghten while others are aquired through coaching and training. Then with the guidance and encouragement of Kathleen or Daniel or sometimes both, couples approach hot button areas with confidence and empathy.
One of the key skills coached in couples sessions and in workshops is the ability to disengage effectively. Our workshop “When to Stop Talking and How” has been enthusiastically received by clients, colleagues, and a national EAP.
Stress levels in marital confict have been compared to those in combat yet little training has been available to help couples focus on their reactions during such conflict. At Group by Design we provide specific tools to help partners move productively through conflict toward their shared values.